How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 02:08
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
What can I do to deal with disrespectful children?
Procrastinates a lot.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Making more friends is a goal.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
How do women feel when they are in love?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Why do I sweat so much after shower?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
What are some signs he is deeply in love with you?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
What is it like to use a Fleshlight?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
That's it for today.
Does not procrastinate.
What I need from you?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Why do men prefer women below the age of 30?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Ask yourself:
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Who are the IT boys of the 1st, 2nd, 3rd, and 4th generation in K-pop?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Which brand is the best home slippers in the Middle East?
Hangs out with loser friends.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Why do people stop working towards achieving their dreams?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.